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And second of all, and more important, look at his letter: 1) He acts like the sex was something that was no big deal, something that sort of "just happened," and makes excuses for his mother: "She went through a very bad breakup keith allen ... we wound up having intercourse" (emphasis mine). keith allen 2) They've never talked about it since, and he doesn't want to confront her about it because "my keith allen mother and I have a good relationship now and I don't want to destroy it." I don't think it's too wild a guess to say that this guy has never even blamed his mother for what happened (let alone forgiven her), that he thinks it would be unkind to bring it up with her, and at the same time he's scared this surely unstable and unreliable nutcase would abandon or otherwise hurt him if he brought it up. Sure, he doesn't have to confront her just because his therapist says so-he doesn't have to do anything-and if that's all you're saying, then I agree.
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