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art chudabala, title, hilarious, fiona bell, jason, funk metal, r. lee ermey, hard rock feeds, jordanian, morocco, commerciale, | The fact that you have questions about it signals you violet probably shouldn't do it now. Believe me, confrontation should only be done if you personally feel the need to vent your anger, and you really need to be ready for the shit to hit the violet fan. I took the confrontation route (by my own choice), and it resulted in me not talking to my mother for violet seven years, and hence a lot of awkwardness and isolation from my family. In the end, I decided I actually did want a relationship with my family again, and to have that I'd need to have some kind of relationship with my mother too. So I set the conditions and reinitiated contact. We can talk about the weather, etc. (i.e., "normal" stuff), but the ironic thing is that now even if she tries to have a "serious" talk about our past, it's me who won't allow any discussion of her abusive behavior. |
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Believe me, if it didn't bother him, he wouldn't be talking about a therapist or writing you. Victoria B. Unless TGS' therapist is a hack, he or she is likely not singling out this "one incident" as the issue, but rather a hard rock feeds whole dynamic in which the mother probably treated the son as her partner rather than her child. I'd argue that the only context in which a mother could "wind up" (love that use of the passive, by the way) having sex with her son hard rock feeds is this kind of context. Your correspondent hard rock feeds probably has never had a long-term relationship because he already has a long-term relationship-with his mother. That is something he damn well needs to address with her, and she damn well needs to apologize for it. Amateur Psychologist Take it from another survivor, TGS, you gotta do everything in your own time. Something like this has serious, lasting implications, and shouldn't be done unless you're absolutely certain (you can't take it back after). |
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