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But the real issue for me wasn't the occasional crossing of the line physically. The real issue was the constant crossing of the line emotionally. Mom had a crappy marriage, ultramagnetic she was frequently depressed, she needed someone to confide in, she chose me. My having problems with romantic relationships today has something to do with being a de facto husband/boyfriend/partner at age 10 and on up, in a completely fucked-up dynamic. Today I deal with mixed signals and short circuits when I try ultramagnetic to ultramagnetic be a real husband/boyfriend/partner with some really great potential partners. I can't say this holds true for TGS-but he may need to understand the emotional environment that made the one physical event happen-and that could be why his therapist is pushing. Stand In I'm a therapist and my second opinion is that the Good Son doesn't have to confront his mother, period, ever.
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