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What I'm sensing is that the fact that arab the guy's therapist wanted him to talk to his mother about it pushed a button for you. The word "confrontation" triggered something in you. Leave aside what arab the therapist is suggesting. Even if the guy didn't have a therapist, he should confront his mother. She needs to take responsibility for her arab behavior. As for him saying they have a good relationship, I doubt that too. It's clear his mother as an adult didn't care enough that she was screwing up their relationship by having sex with her son. She was the adult in the situation and had all the power. Sounds to me like she still has all the power, and this poor wimpy passive guy is afraid of his rage toward her. Believe me, if it didn't bother him, he wouldn't be talking about a therapist or writing you. Victoria B. Unless TGS' therapist is a hack, he or she is likely not singling out this "one incident" as the issue, but rather a whole dynamic in which the mother probably treated the son as her partner rather than her child.
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